Here is the final chapter in the baby building saga. It’s not really final because this was written in March 2013 and I didn’t get pregnant with our first child until April 2014. This is the moment that I made the first step toward trusting. You’ll read how I was such an idiot. LOL. You’ll see that I still thought I had control, but you’ll also see that I realized that a house is not a home without a family and I accepted that in order to grow there must be change. I am so thankful now for my kids because even though we could have made so much more progress on the Land if we hadn’t been focused on babies for the last 3 years, whatever we would have built would still be empty. Our progress is slow, but our hearts are full.
Friday, March 29, 2013
Working things out
I feel 90% sure I shouldn’t stop the pills this month. I picked up my next pack today. I have the 7 placebo pills left in my current pack and then i will start the new pack next Sunday the 7th. If I take that full pack, I will run out and my first day to not take a pill would be May 5th. I am excited to stop taking the pills. I have been taking them for 10 years. It all started over a bad period, but with the side effects being no-pregnancy, I just continued taking them…indefinitely. The last 2 1/2 years that we have been married, we have been very NO KIDS. I have taken the pills very strictly and seriously. Now, I am glad to begin getting it out of my system. I am anxious to see how it will affect my system. I am pretty certain that I have endometriosis that my pills keep in check. I haven’t had the surgery to check, but my Dr. thinks that is unnecessary unless we are unable to conceive. With endometriosis, it’s likely to be difficult. My mom had a very hard time becoming pregnant. I am afraid of this being the case for us. My pills have kept the endometriosis down, but without them, it may act up making it hard to conceive. The best cure for endometriosis is a pregnancy. The only thing to make it stop is to stop ovulating– which I haven’t really been doing for the last 10 years on pills. I am afraid stuff is screwed up, more screwed up by pills, and then will not work correctly. It seems like we need to get this show on the road, just in case there happen to be some road blocks along the way.
If I take one more pack of pills, it will start my first “normal” cycle day on May 5th. According to my ovulation calculator, I would be good to go May 10th – 15th. After 10 years of pills, I highly doubt that I would become pregnant a week later. If I did, it would be because that’s the baby God wants us to raise. Most everything that I have read says that it will take a couple months for things to return to normal. WebMD says that some women can conceive quickly, and that would be fine…definitely earlier than preferred, but unlikely enough that would be a good date to quit pills. I might be regularizing out by June and another cycle. The next ovulation days would be—if things go immediately normal (DOUBTFUL)—-June 9-14. This is good because I would be unlikely to become pregnant during those dates because we will be in England. Well, we actually might be doing a lot in prep for England because we will be with family — no good alone time from the 11th-22nd. We would just need to be careful, maybe. Remembering that probably not a regular cycle yet. Also, not ideal because I do not want to be pregnant on that trip. I am dying to go to Amsterdam and party down— a celebration before focusing on baby, and just ultimate EuroTrip!! I can’t do that if I am preggo already. That is a selfish thing and if God sees me pregnant before then, its God’s timing and not mine. I will take it as part of the plan…
BUT REALLY — Here’s getting to what would be ideal.
Pills stopped- return to normalcy begin:
May 5th FD: 10-15 = Feb Baby
June FD: 9-14 = March Baby
July FD: 9-14 = April Baby
August FD: 8-13 = May Baby
Begin recording temperature each morning–plotting for next cycle: Happy Anniversary!
SEPTEMBER FD 7-12 = JUNE 3rd Baby!!!
Why yes, I would be pregnant all year, but I wouldn’t have to miss hardly any school with maternity leave. I can save all my days up or take off the last couple wasteful weeks of school- HOOORAY!!
This is maybe doable. That is best-case-scenario 4 complete cycles. I have to continue to pray that the endometriosis will not be a problem and that by May- September my system will have straightened out.
I just read on a blog that there are quite a few people who got pregnant within a 1-3 month time frame… I guess we will see beginning in June!